Cierra Luvs U

Douchiest of the Douches

I love magazines.  HOWEVER I recently read an article from a man’s perspective on “6 Things You Say That Sabotage Your Hotness”. First of all, the fact that certain things we women say can ruin how attractive we are to this man makes him shallow. That being said, everything this dude claims makes us unattractive are things we’ve heard over and over, just less annoying and better worded. This guy is such a DOUCHE bag, and thinks he is above manners. I will tell you why, right now.

The guy who wrote this article is a “real single guy dating in NYC”, as if that makes everything better…

1. “I hate my arms.” Apparently when we criticize our bodies we are either “fishing for compliments” or “preempting” what we “imagine” a man’s critique would be about ourselves. Fishing for compliments? Who is this guy dating, high school chicks? I will assume this guy is in his mid or late twenties, or even early thirties. Unless we’re fifteen, we’re not looking for your fucking compliments. And we could care less about what you think about our bodies. It really comes down to the fact that we genuinely DON’T LIKE OUR ARMS. The reason behind the dislike could be any, but it doesn’t involve you if we’re not in a serious relationship. We’ve hated our arms since we were 12. Asshole.

2.”Should I get implants?” I agree with him on this one, don’t do it. Breasts are sexy when they’re natural. Don’t mess with them.

3.”She looks like a slut.” YEAH SHE DOES. I don’t need to know her age, her height and weight, or even her name; if her boobies are hanging out and her butt cheeks can be seen when she takes steps forward, she’s a slut. Yeah she probably looks hotter than me, because she’s half naked in public. But his point is that it makes us seem insecure and bitchy, and that he would never want to introduce a girl like that to his mother or sister. Dude? What? Whatever. You know what? Even if a girl isn’t radiating whorish vibes, and isn’t dressed promiscuously, but is extremely prettier than me I’m might call her a slut. So call me a bitch. It feels a little good to let that jealousy out. But we don’t really think it’s true. And God forbid she hears us, we would apologize! It’s human nature, if that makes me less hot then I guess I care more about being my ugly self. Go find a superficial idiot to have sex with weirdo.

4. I won’t even go here lol, celebrity obsession is creepy.

5. “I’m sooo wasted.” The Author thinks that it is unladylike for a woman to get shit wasted (I know, crazy right? Because we’re the ones with that reputation). At this point, it’s clear that this guy thinks his feces smells of No. 5. He says, and I quote, “Like you, guys are ultimately looking for someone who’s stable and together” FALSE. No you’re not. This guy is writing an article about what we say that makes us LESS HOT. He’s looking for sex. “Plenty of us have overindulged - and then we graduated from college” I’m not even sure this dude has graduated from high school yet. “So keep your wits about you and you’ll remain a fox in my eyes” What the fuck almighty? Someone is buying us drinks, someone took us to a bar for a date, and someone is more than likely just as drunk as we are. “Besides, I’m a gentleman-” YOU’RE AN ASSHOLE “-and your being hammered means our evening is over. Bummer for us both”. Could your ego be any bigger than the huge stick up your ass? He is so conceited and full of himself. If he ever has time to pull his head out of his rear end, he may find his dating efforts successful. Speaking of ego…

6. “You really want to have sex tonight?” “It’s not like we’re dragging you on a five-mile hike or to a Ranger’s game” are you serious???? Yes, it is! Especially when we’re tired. And a simple “Not tonight, honey” like you’ve so arrogantly suggested, is followed by your whining about not getting laid that night. Oh lord, go watch porn. AND if you think that we think having sex with you is the best we’ve ever had while dating people, chances are you’re wrong. Because you’re a douche :) And the whole I just wanted to be closer to you is such bullshit. We’re not going to lie to you to save your “fragile male ego”. You need psychological help!

And so do the editors of this magazine! You have to read the article to understand completely my anger, seriously. I’m just so entirely outraged. Not because it’s an insult to women (which it clearly is) but because it’s not all true. And some poor girls out there are going to take this advice, and become closed off, insecure, low self-esteem, in-confident women. This was not an article that empowered women, but rather it made some believe they are bitchy high strung assholes, just for being real. With feelings, may I add! Ultimately, we’re humans. We get jealous, sad, mad, insecure, happy and everything else in between. We shouldn’t have to hide that while dating. Because how will we find the one person who accepts us for who we are? This guy is going to be single for a very long time. Don’t ever change the way you are, or how you feel, for a man. A relationship is supposed to be real, not hot. Sorry to break it to you. Dating should be real too. But I guess not if you’re single in NYC, and male. I hope the percentage of men who think like this is low.

I wish

I could save all the girls who cut their hair off into pixie cuts. I wish I could warn them, “the grow out is so disgusting!” I feel like I made such a big mistake and it’s only been two months. Idk how I’m going to do this. I’m not fucking rich I cant get extensions. I don’t care WHAT anybody has to say, I hate my hair. It doesn’t matter if it looks “fine”. I don’t feel fine, I feel like an ugly boy. I don’t feel like myself. This is shit. My self esteem is so low because I cant not wear makeup without looking like a 12 yr old BOY. Yes, I care what I look like. Rather I care to look like a girl since I am one. I feel anything but pretty. Dont cut your hair this short if it’s past your shoulders. Unless you’re a 90s lesbian because thats what you’ll feel like!! RIP my fucking hair

Huh

You would THINK that after addressing an issue, all peoples involved would work on making the situation better. Not continue to make it worse.

I’m really about to angry blog about TV

but not on this blog

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I’m not

Going to put great effort into people who only talk to me when they need something, but can ignore me for a week when they don’t. Tell me how that makes sense?

All smiles

I just realized its been about a year since I finished high school. I know to some that seems like a short minute. But to me, that’s one year away from high school! I can honestly say I’ve learned so much from my freshman year of college, and just this past year as a (semi) “adult”. I’m so glad I left high school behind me, instead of dragging it along with me. I feel bad for those who haven’t! But I can’t bother to pity them. I’m too busy looking forward to my wonderful future! Besides, my efforts to help and care about some have been thrown down the drain. People who are grown should be able to make their own choices, and I will no longer insist that they make the right ones. All I can do is focus on those who actually care about me, and who value my efforts as a caring friend. Im so happy I have my life together and that what I have to look forward to is great!
I’m also happy that this weekend I’m going to reconnect with my best friend, who’s been there for me since childhood. We love each other so much, and are nothing but honest with each other. It’ll be a refreshing change to be around my old friend. Now if only I could get my friend since first grade to get her butt down here!
Right now I’m all smiles, and happier than ever.

don’t ever apologize for posting pictures of yourself

Fill your blog with your own face

Show off your arms, thighs, ass, shoulders

Make pages and pages of your own teeth and hair

Dedicate space to loving the cracks in your lips and the chewed parts of your fingers

And if you are called vain, then you have succeeded

In getting others to notice

How fucking beautiful and important you are

(Source: femmesandfamily)

I just

Turned around, and looked back, for just a second. The moment I did I realized why I always keep my head forward. The past is gone. It’s nothing compared to my future.

It’s been a month!

Or it will be on Thursday. I got my haircut so short on the 1st of April. It’s grown a lot since then. It looks so outgrown and literally cannot be tamed. It’s not too bad, and not even close to my goal. But my hair has made progress and I’m so happy. It’s grown at least an inch. I’ve been taking my vitamins and supplements religiously. I wash my hair with Mane n Tail still. I straighten it once a week. Sometimes once every two weeks. I can’t wear it curly yet, it falls right in my face -_-. I always use heat protectors and leave in conditioner. And I deep condition every time I wash my hair. I’m looking to accomplish about 5-6 inches in the next 6-7 months. This way I won’t expect an inch a month, but nothing less than 3/4 in. per month. I’m so serious about this, it’s crazy. I’m due for a hot oil treatment. It feels like it’s been a year I can’t wait until September, hopefully it’ll be extensions length. Believe me, asap, there will be extensions in my hair. Can’t wait for this month to go by!

I don’t know how you are

But when I’m done with someone, I’M DONE. When I break up with you, we are broken up. And it’s probably your fault. Because I can be quite flexible, until it comes to my very few but important standards. I dont want to be your friend. I don’t want to be acquaintances. I don’t fucking like you? I don’t make a habit of being friends with my exes. And on top of that, my mind isn’t gonna change two years later! I still don’t like you! If you want to be friends maybe you shouldn’t have been such a douche. There’s only one ex I would consider being friends with simply because HE’S THE ONLY ONE WHO HAS RESPECTED THIS. I don’t wanna be your friend, of any kind. Get over it and don’t forget it.